What the world owes me.

So I promised I'd write something and alas I have not, until now that is. I have been thinking a lot though. Life just seems to have clicked now and I find myself brushing off things that would have had me beat for days before. I didn't really understand why though I didn't know how I was doing it.

I think I've sussed it however. I've been blaming the World for all my losses and set backs. Now though I've realised that the World never promised me anything and yet it's already given me so much. I took for granted what was handed to me and when I stopped being handed opportunities and helping hands I demanded answers and demanded I started to get them again. I didn't realise they had just been gifts that I was privileged to have received.

I then made another realisation; at times in my life when I had given most to other people I was happiest. Now you may not believe in Karma or in a good and evil balance but you don't have to because it's just a by-product of how you live your life. If you live for others and enrich other peoples life's things automatically start to go well for you. You naturally become somebody people warm to and want to spend time with. With that comes new and close friends, relationships maybe and possibly even a new job. As soon as you focus on you and what has been taken from you you lose many qualities that people appreciate.

So I start a new job on Monday and it's very people orientated. Let's hope I can inspire some people and help them fulfill their life's and, if my theory is correct, I'll be happy for many years yet.

Gareth x